Suffering in silence...

Living in isolation and loneliness

Isolation and loneliness should not be part of your life. ( my photo of a isolated beach area in Door County) 


I posted this in February of 2020, before the pandemic and the country was shut down and quaratined.  I didn't agree with the isolation at that time and I was right about the harm it could do.We read about many cases of abuse, anxiety, etc.   People did not keep their immune systems intact..we need the microorganisms we get from being out doors and among others.

As this is still a problem, do your best to reach out, go out..and stay or get into a positive attitude.."In God we trust"..He is still on the throne.


I found some very good information and advice in a newsletter from AARP recently, and want to share it with you.


Regardless of age isolation is one of the most serious health problems for people of all ages, but especially for American seniors.


It is one of the most serious health problems today.


Studies have found that social isolation and loneliness are worse for one's health than obesity - and prolonged isolation is just as bad as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.  It can cause other health problems and that can make care more expensive.  


 * Isolation is a widespread problem - affecting 1 in 3 adults aged 45 and older.


* Lower income makes the problem worse: half of the midlife and older adults who earn less than $25,00 a year say they feel isolated.


* There is a strong connection between isolation and health problems: half of the midlife and older adults who consider their health to be fair or poor say they are lonely.


* Adults diagnosed with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, or other mood disorders had the highest rates of loneliness.


There is a study providing ideas on how to tackle this problem.


*  Midlife and older adults are making more friends and acquaintances online, and when those friends*  hips expand to meeting in person, people are even less likely to experience loneliness or isolation.


** VOLUNTEERING is a great way to address isolation.  Older adults who volunteer are significantly less likely to be lonely than those who do not.


One good example is Connect2Affect an initiative that provides a volunteer opportunity database, stories of social connectedness, and access to events like "Good Neighbor Day." AARP Foundation is also working on expanding a Voice Activated Technology Program, which uses smart home devices to make it easy, fast, and fun for older adults to stay connecte4d with their community.


AARP further stated that more than two decades of research has shown the older adults who volunteer experience significant health benefits, including lower mortality rates, greater functional ability, and lower rated of depression and disease.  Simple put, volunteering makes it easy to feel good while doing good.  AARP Foundation Experience Corps is a volunteer-based tutoring program that connects older adults to their communities by engaging them in the intergenerational work of helping young students become better readers.

RSVP is one of the nation's largest volunteer networks for people 55 and over.  

You can contact AARP regarding any of the above suggestions.



Local churches like mine have many opportunities for volunteer work.  At Lifeline Church, 3285W. Calhoun Rd. Brookfield, Wi.262 783-2900 we regularly serve meals at the Ronald McDonald house.   Our Piecemakers ministry sews quilts and clothing's that may go overseas with one of the mission trips.  We are always in need of volunteers to help cut or sew the projects.  The work and fellowship is a blessing to all involved.


Don't suffer in silence !

God did not intend for us to be isolated and lonely.  If you are, or know of someone that is in need of fellowship..reach out to them and give them this information.  


Better yet. Take them with you..It will make your day !


"This is the day the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it." 

Psalm 118:24


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Kris | Reply 28.01.2019 21:09

Interesting. Good article.

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17.04 | 06:56

Happy Easter, Geri!
This post is beautiful!

06.04 | 16:30

Good words to remember and live by…Thanks

10.03 | 07:19

It’s quality of friends not quantity , I always say. I love that picture of Jacob at Fred Howard park with is little friend. Love ya, Aunt Geri

10.03 | 07:02

This made me smile again about 3 years later. Thanks for sharing again.

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